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‘I sneak up on the teenage son’s phone – he watches porn every day’ – Coleen Nolan

Dear choline



My 15-year-old son recently went to school and left his phone at home. I know I shouldn’t have done that, but despite myself I kept a glance through it.

He is always on it and I think I just wanted to see what kind of thing he was watching and to check that he was okay. I found out that he watches porn sites most days.

If he knew that I knew this he would be very embarrassed. She is a cute boy, but I worry about the effect it has on her, especially when you read all the things about young people and porn and the effect it has on their sex.

I am a single mother, so I am what I want to deal with.

What do you think i do If he knew that I would see him through his phone, he would kill me.

Says Coleen

You may have seen her phone, but can’t accept that there’s no reason you can’t discuss porn with her.

I know it’s embarrassing, but just find a good time to be quiet when it’s quiet and no one around, and ask him if he’s starting to see it.

You might say: “You know that I was reading this news today about young people and porn and I wonder if you and your partner see it? And make sure you listen to his thoughts.

Try to open conversations about sex and women and about consent and respect and what is happening in schools.

It is in the news right now, which is a good way to communicate. Try to keep things light, stop if he gets too embarrassed, listen to him and joke with him.

You can say: “Listen, there is nothing more important than talking to your mother about this.” I got it. But if I had not been having this conversation, I would not have been a good mother. “

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